Monday, September 06, 2004

Some of Life's fav question

Questions that my friend asked on her blog
and question that i always ask msyelf
and question that alot of people have pondered upon

1. What is Happiness?
2. What is Life?
3. What is Love?
4. How to measure if I've got a meaningful life?

i've been pondering into those questions for so long
sometime there is an aswer..sometimes there is so many answers, sometime there is no answers, im confused mysef =P
for the 4th question i find lyrics of 4him - measure of a man [lyrics on my blog or google for it], a good answer.
i tink mayb there is no ultimate answer to life, or mayb god is the answer, i don't know
mayb its life to search for this answers, as they always say...live for love, search for happiness?

lol..wat is love!? i've been asking myself too, i know the love of a mother/father for his/her child, love of god, but i still don't understand the love between a gal n a guy[i'll call it hetro love lol], if they so much so love each other? why are there divorce? why are they cheating? why is there hurt? or isit "love" is just a chemical reacation, a spark? or isit sexual? i tink the greatest love of all, after god's love, is the love a parent, love of a child, so much so that someone would endure 9 months of pain, sacrifice so much to bring a child up, protecting it,ever forgiving ,in the end not hoping anything in return, only that the child will lead a good life, its a phenomenal thing, suddenly "Love"(hetro love)is so much so celebrated in songs , movies. but rarely the love of a father for his child, a love of a mother for her unborn infant, a love of a soldier dying for his country, don't they deserve more celebration than those hetro love? of cos a guy will love u and buy u nice things, talk sweet to u, cos he wanan bang u! and of cos a gal would be nice to u and stuff, cos she wants romance and excitement, mayb your credit card..lol. I think the media has very much celebrated the wrong love and gave the wrong idea on love, its like LOve=SEX , Love=Romance , Love=passion.I'm not saying Love is not good, i just think the boy gal kinda love is overrated, exploited by industries, A love a hero for his country, a love of a parent for his children, a love of a friend, a love of god for his ppl, these are the true loves, love which sacrifice everything with out hoping for something in return, love with out motive, love without exploit, love that is so pure and clean, that is TRUE LOVE

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